Traditionally, Christmas is a time of love, peace and solidarity, in which, some more than others, are carried away by the colorful lights, the theme songs and the planning of the entire festive season.
Even in times of a pandemic, when we are not even sure that we will be able to be with the people who are most dear to us, we spend part of our time thinking about them and how we can show our affection.
The exchange of Christmas gifts is a symbolic moment and, in anticipation, we think about the people to whom we want to offer something. We turn our heads thinking about the right gifts because, in its purest form, giving a gift is telling someone how we feel, the importance we recognize and the affection we have for them.
But it is not always easy to find “that” gift that our friend or family member will love. Some ideas come naturally, others need some imagination and some of us find themselves, a few days before Christmas, still not knowing what they are going to offer.
We leave you some tips, which we hope you find useful, to make your selection of offers this holiday season.
1. See how much money you can spend
It is very important that the anxiety of giving the perfect gift does not jeopardize your family budget. Spending too much today may seem reasonable, but tomorrow you may find it was too much. Before you go shopping, see how much you can spend without missing it later.
2. Make a list of the lucky ones and the gifts
In order not to forget to buy any gift, make a list with the names of family members or friends to whom you intend to give as a gift. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, it can even be on a simple sheet of paper. When you know what gift you want to give each one, write it down. If you are patient, you can even take note of the approximate price of each gift to ensure that the sum of all is still within the budget.
3. Think gifts are not for you
The gifts are for those who will receive them. Try to think of what the other person likes that will make them smile with satisfaction. It is tempting to think about our personal tastes, what we ourselves want and what we think is a great joke, but more important is what the person receiving the gift likes.
4. Take the opportunity to socialize… and listen
Part of the secret to giving a good gift to someone we care about is being able to put ourselves in their position. Now, this is very difficult, but you can start by really listening to that person. If possible, take the opportunity to spend some time with her and be on the lookout for clues that can make a good gift. If you can’t be there, try to call and take the opportunity to miss you.
5. Put some of yourself
Although the gifts are not for you, they will be given by you. If you can combine the tastes of the person you want to gift with your own tastes, so much the better. Look for a gift that says something to both of you.
6. Know that there is no such thing as the perfect gift
It’s not worth killing yourself thinking that there could be a better gift than the one you’ve already chosen. If you are looking for the perfect gift, it will never come. It is enough that the person who will receive it likes it, that they recognize the attention and that they remember that they gave you a piece of themselves.
7. Remember that price isn’t everything
We may think that more money buys a better gift. Often, a word or a small gesture can make a difference. In the same way, a symbolic gift, thought with heart, can have much more meaning than an expensive gift, but empty of emotion.
8. Research prices
If you can pay less, why should you pay more? Once you know which gifts you want to buy, do a price comparison. See the same item in 2 or 3 different stores and choose the one with the best price for the quality you are looking for.
9. Write a postcard
Take a few minutes to think about what you haven’t been able to say to that special someone all year. Write it on a Christmas card to accompany your gift and give it even more meaning.
10. Don’t give gifts out of obligation
A gift given out of obligation does not have the same meaning as a gift given willingly and with heart. If you can, give gifts to the people who mean the most to you. For others, take the opportunity to call and wish them a Merry Christmas.
Happy holidays to you, that’s what we wish you.
source: blog salto do santander
